So touching. but in fact, its true to a lot of people. AND another mail for ALL LADIES. AND what a girl means... AND i'm a march baby. AND my answers

When you were 8 years old, your dad handed you an ice cream. You thanked him by dripping it all over his lap.

When you were 9 years old, he paid for piano lessons. You thanked him by never even bothering to practice.

When you were 10 years old, he drove you all day, from soccer to
Gymnastics to one birthday party after another. You thanked him by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When you were 11 years old, he took you and your friends to the movies. You thanked him by asking to sit in a different row.

When you were 12 years old, he warned you not to watch certain TV shows. You thanked him by waiting until he left the house.

When you were 13, he suggested a haircut that was becoming. You thanked him by telling him he had no taste..

When you were 14, he paid for a month away at summer camp.
You thanked him by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, he came home from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked him by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, he taught you how to drive his car. You thanked him by taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, he was expecting an important call.You thanked him by being on the phone all night.

When you were 18, he cried at your high school graduation. You thanked him by staying out partying until dawn.

When you were 19, he paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags. You thanked him by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 25, he helped to pay for your wedding, and he cried and told you how deeply he loved you. You thanked him by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 50, he fell ill and needed you to take care of him.
You thanked him by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

And then, one day, he quietly died. And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder on YOUR HEART.

Love your dad. Cherish him. Appreciate him.


U can choose not to believe the following. but wdv. lol

The below came from a cop I know, who knows some one who knows these things….so have a read and be informed (although the Singapore situation isn't that bad compared to the west)

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Through a Rapist's Eyes (No Joke)


This is important information for females of ALL ages .
When this was sent to me, I was told to forward it to my lady friends, but I forwarded it to most everyone in my address book. My men friends have female friends and this information is too important to miss someone.

Please pass it along.

A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed . They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair . Women with short hair are not common targets.


2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around specifically to cut clothing.


3) They also look for women on their cell phone , searching through their purse, or doing other activities while walking because they are off-guard and can be easily overpowered.


4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between 5:00a.m. and 8:30a.m.


5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store parking lots . Number two: is office parking lots/garages. Number three: is public restrooms.


6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.


7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.


8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.


9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas , or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands. Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.


10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question , like what time is it, or make general small talk: 'I can't believe it is so cold out here,' 'we're in for a bad winter.' Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.


11) If someone is coming toward you , hold out your hands in front of you and yell STOP or STAY BACK ! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back .. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.


12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes) , yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.


13) If someone grabs you , you can't beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm (between the elbow and armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD .


One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it - it hurts.


14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN . I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble and He's out of there.


15) When the guy puts his hands up to you , grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.


16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings , take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!!
You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

this is really sweet........
When a Girl is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.
When a Girl is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.
When a Girl looks at u with eyes full of questions .. she is wondering
how
long you will be around.
When a Girl answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at
all fine.
When a Girl stares at you ... she is wondering why you are lying.
When a Girl lays on your chest ... she is wishing for you to be hers forever.
When a Girl wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.
When a Girl says ' I love you ' ... she means it.
When a Girl says ' I miss you ' ... no one in this world can miss you more than that.
Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person ....
Find a Guy . who calls you beautiful instead of hot. who calls you back
when you hang up on him.
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ...
kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats. Who
holds your hand in front of his friends. Who is constantly reminding you
of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!! '

-----------------MARCH BABY --------------------
Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and
Reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous
And sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity.
Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered.
Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness.
Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up
Feelings. Observant and assesses others.

1. Which is your favorite color out of: red , black , blue , green , or yellow ?

Black - You are conservative and aggressive.
2. Your first initial?

S-Z You like to help others and your future love life looks very good.

3. Your month of birth?

Jan-Mar: The year will go very well for you and you will discover that you fall in love with someone totally unexpected.

4. Which color do you like more, black or white?
Black: Your life will take on a different direction, it will seem hard at the time but will be the best thing for you, and you will be glad for the change.

5. Na me of a person of the same sex as yours.
This person is your best friend.

6. Your favorite number? (16)
This is how many close friends you have in your lifetime.

7. Do you like Flying or Driving more?

Flying: You like adventure.

8. Do you like a lake or the ocean more?

Ocean: You are spontaneous and like to please people.

9. Write down a wish (a realistic one).

his wish will come true only if you send this to five people in one hour. Send it to ten people, and it will come true before your next birthday


ANOTHER TEST.

1) What is your favourite colour?

-Red (brave)

2) What is your favourite hang-out place with your friends?

-Shopping mall (crazy, fun)

3) What is your usual dress code?

-Pants and shirt (simple)

4) If you had free time, what would you do?

-Throw a party with friends (wacky)

5) Name one of your hobbies

-Dancing (graceful)

6) What is your favourite genre of music?

-Pop (fun)

7) In your opinion, who is the most important person/people/thing in your life?

-Family (lovable, sweet)

8) If your mother gives you $50, you would...

-Demand more, because it's not enough to get you the stuff you want (greedy)

WELL HELLOO!?!?!?! I WILL JUST SSPEND TT 50. I WONT DEMAND MORE. AND MY MOTHER WOULDNT EVEN GIVE ME 50 -.-'''

LOL.

9) If the guy of your dreams asks you out the day before the exams, you...

-Just go out with him (naughty)

10) What is your favourite time of the day?

-Night (dark, emotional)

LAME CRRAP. LAME LAME LAME.